I am not lucky, I just dare strive for him due
Article ／ Li Xiaoyi
1, lucky, it is additionally one kind of actual strength
Everybody says C is the luckiest feminine ——“ lucky ” in the friend is the word with a mixed feeling, taking at the same time gasp in admiration and envy, across, much little actual strength having a place wins out accidentally not quite unspoken criticism.
Especially, c its appearance not raise, inertial thinking is: Lucky be a belle is exclusive.
But, she develops smooth-going really, from fundamental article member accomplish vise general manager; Married the husband that is envied, tall, handsome, rich still, once was the client of C company, in those days beside around numerous female, chose not outstanding C finally however; She still has a few good friends, carry a name to let a person shine at the moment.
The results of C, the actual strength that looked to surmount her far and pay, so, people is eristic while she is lucky, still have a bit pry and curiosity: So good luck, by what be her?
Old friend, I understand C particularly why lucky.
A day a lot of years ago, I go to C office looking for her to come off work one case fitness, catch up with her boss also waiting for elevator, I am looking at the boss" back aloof, ask her: Want to went behindhand, perhaps change stair? Is be the same as ladder with the boss not quite comfortable?
C says: Why disaccord boss Where is time of elevator?
Then, we two carrying gymnastical bag and boss to arrive by elevator at the same time 1 building.
C natural and graceful is mixed actively boss chitchat, what there was not average employee is overcautious with be affectedly bashful, popularized knowledge of a few fitness even, still remove the cafeteria with a few around good taste a little incidentally, divulge among them one is some of important client get together dot. Just before parting, the boss is kind fasten with our path.
Just, I cannot think of, the boss in this elevator became the noble of C later, gave her crucial promotion chance.
The noble that a lot of people hit the target with making a living is good by grand ceremonial feeling arrangement, the station awaits in the deep feeling below spotlight, reality is however, ta is in probably a certain ordinary corner, in a certain casual extract, observe year in year out and look you up and down, consideration maturity just can extend the golden finger of touch a stone and turn it into gold to you.
So, alleged and lucky person, special the opportunity that is good at holding fleeting.
Before C marriage, I accompany her to buy marriage shoe.
I know she married a particularly popular man, ask her insecurity for fun. She was not revealed get married of tall Shuai Fu excited, happy but also say calmingly:
Love it is good to him that he is mixed this thing, it is I am in cross oneself well while, create opportunity happening hard, but, I not marry to lay ultimate goal as the person with him, do not marry go up to cannot live.
I am capable to had found a place for my, he is very clear also we can have together better in the future, it is 1 ＋ 1 ＞ 2, our feeling also in harmony, the life also in harmony, marrying me also is him is lucky.
What is lucky? Lucky person is very clear where is oneself cards in one"s hand after all, it is others is lost sight of only.
2, talent and experience, be forced come out
2000 have before New Year more particularly lucky ugly female, call Zhong Mo salt.
Is she ugly to what degree? Head of joint of bones looks greatly, long point to big bear, fat Xiang Shaofa, the skin is like lacquer, sound fierces and ambitious like night, let a person flinch. Pass 40, marry not only do not go out, return become destitute and homeless.
40 years old, ancient time is become the age of the grandma, the humour of history depends on probably, depict so ugly that allow the woman of battle of bravery of popular feeling Jing, comfort other woman, you look, she can be become, by what are you become?
Surprise not to have salt uglily, can lean only outstanding clever show itself.
Her encouraged, run to neat country the capital faces king of neat announce of Zi ask to see, want the effectiveness that it is a country, neat announce king bursts out laughing, ask she has what ability, her in sad earnest says: King, you are too dangerous.
Next, produced art of a behavior without salt, carry eye Sigu, gnash, wave stroke genu.
Everybody is stupefied, ask this is what meaning, say without salt: Carry soon balefire all around, om a few days of arms of the Qin Dynasty needs cereal giving letter closes; Gnash is the way that reminds king not to want block to break official in feudal times to persuade expostulate with; Waving is to persuade king purify treacherous court official, stroking genu is the building that suggests king does not build luxury. Not foresighted, neat country how can powerful.
Man most the wife that appreciation helps his cause.
Woman most the man that love gave her love.
Wang Yi knows Qi Xuan to be opposite without salt his assist a ruler in governing a country, married unexpectedly famous ugly female, arouse one"s all efforts to make the country prosperous falls in her proposal, the general such as appoint cropland avoid, Sun Bin, qi Guocheng is the country with the strongest actual strength, face Zi to become center of culture of period of the Warring States.
Then, became the luckiest woman in history without salt.
But, pass through historical soot, you can see countless its appearance probably not the common girl of raise, look be like without great ambition, however most agree to spend time and energy to immerse oneself in work.
Other woman be gorgeously dressed talks about love, she is not anxious, then grind; Daily necessaries of legitimate child of other woman knot, she not angst, continue to be gotten painstakingly; Other woman considers how be attracted and lock up calm man, she is not disturbed, use the time that is used on man body on him body, talent and experience grow day and day.
Lucky, sometimes assemble comes out.
Talent and experience, it is to force sometimes come out.
Accumulated certain level, these common girls erupted, they win wanted life not only, still won perfect marriage, friendship and career, but what most person sees they flare for an instant only is lucky, the effort that wants not to remove backside and hold to.
3, they do not compromise casually, won next
A lot of senior goddess, it is to be in quite senile when, just had the good a home to return to in people look. Shu Qi of 40 years old married a good friend Feng Delun, liu Reying becomes mother 45 years old, still that is married 59 years old of United States of Moduoke exceed a standard outstanding Li · Huo Er.
Yellow Tong Tongceng says, why those good girls that are regarded as “ remnant female ” , is what marry finally male god? Even, so that let close friends feel to owe them,those are not married tardy in the life the girl of a boy friend, have married a young person not less Cai Jun.
Looking is a life good, it is their due actually, they did not compromise casually in that way like a lot of people, dare to weichi with destiny rich, finally, they won.
Career and love are same, resemble the blackart cummer J that everybody thinks to be less than 51 years old. K. Luo Lin is being written " Ha Libo is special " the ” of children literature writer with “ the most successful throughout history can be become after series, can pay what do not rise to rent a settle or live in a strange place from 600 pound chummage, become more wealthy than British queen woman.
So, who is lucky?
Those are good, belong to you originally, distinction depends on, whether do you dare break through brambles and thorns-hack one"s way through difficulties, encounter divine dragon to also not be afraid of; Whether are you willing a view all directions, bumped south the wall turns round in time; You whether can the bosom friend tells the other, understand oneself bottom line and dominant position; Whether can you be able to bear or endure doleful, be far from the prevalent custom that does not suit oneself.
I remember from beginning to end, those who accompany C to choose marriage shoe that day, her shoe stands up, smiling to say: I am not lucky, I just dare strive for him due.
I feel, what she says is true word.
Dare strive for him due girl, live so that won"t differ.