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真正的努力,从来都不动声色

文/李三清

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大四上学期备战考研时,在图书馆自习室我认识了茉莉,一个笑起来有两个梨涡的女孩。

得知我也在准备考研,茉莉很热情,要了我的联系方式,并约定一起晨读,背英语单词。我欣然接受。

第二天,茉莉穿着一件白色蕾丝长裙,踩着高跟鞋,长发披肩,姗姗来迟。我提醒她赶紧背书,她却拿出课本,让我帮她先拍几张照。站在树下,坐在长椅上,正面、侧身、背影……各种角度,各种姿态,一顿狂拍。

我想,她可能是好不容易找到个伴给她拍照,等几天新鲜劲儿过了就会安心复习。谁知,她每天晨读都要拍照,穿各种风格的衣服,摆各式各样的姿势,找各种不同的角度。

原来,她每天晨读、拍照就是为了在朋友圈打卡。她精心选图、修图,并绞尽脑汁配上文艺范儿的文字:“世界上任何书籍都不能带给你好运,但是它们能让你悄悄成为你自己。”“总有一天,你会感谢现在拼命努力的自己”……

我觉得,有这个拍照、选图、修图的时间,还不如多读几页书、多背几个单词。全身心地沉浸在学习中,是一件非常投入、非常享受的事情,哪还有心思忙着拍照、发朋友圈,等着收获一连串的赞和评论呢?

果然,不到一个月,茉莉就以天气渐渐变冷容易感冒为由,结束了晨读的日子。

天下难事,必作于易;天下大事,必作于细。努力,是克服自己的畏难情绪和惰性,朝着既定目标一点点、一天天、一步步靠近。

你做三四月的事,在八九月自有答案。真正的努力,从来不需要世人皆知。

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不久前,朋友兰兰刚考上博士。

兰兰研究生毕业,在老家的小城市工作,老公在省会城市。她一直想和老公结束两地分居的日子。但是,她的专业不是很好就业,在人才济济的省会城市也没多大优势,于是她想考个博士,以后去高校工作。

兰兰考博成功给我打电话时,我很震惊。因为她平常工作很忙,事情特别多,更关键的是她刚生完孩子。

原来,兰兰两年前就计划考博了。她制定了严格的学习计划,工作日每天保证学习两小时,周末和节假日每天至少保证学习四小时,学习计划精确到每半小时。她复习的时候,关机、断网,只用手表看时间。怀孕期间,在身体允许的情况下,学习也没有间断。

我问她怎么不告诉我们考博的事情。她说,考博是她慎重考虑后做出的决定。她不需要昭告天下,只需朝着这个目标日复一日地努力。太多的关注和问候,反而容易给她带来一些不必要的心理压力。

既然选择了远方,便只顾风雨兼程。真正的努力,从来都不动声色。

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很多时候,我们喜欢嚷着要改变,要努力。

想学瑜伽,咬咬牙报了培训班,买了瑜伽服,发朋友圈打卡,请大家监督……最后却坚持不下来,不了了之;

想学英语,买了一大堆书,几个月过去了却还是停留在前三页;

想考研,约上小伙伴去自习室,最后却忙着自拍、看小说、聊微信,甚至补觉……

如果我们能把嚷嚷的劲头落实到每一天的实际行动中,也许就能减少很多因碌碌无为、虚度光阴而留下的悔恨了。

成功者之所以成功,是因为他们不浮躁、不喧闹,长年累月,脚踏实地、不动声色地努力。

真正的努力,是“不积跬步,无以至千里;不积小流,无以成江海”的积累;是“贵有恒,何必三更眠五更起;最无益,只怕一日曝十日寒”的自律;是“千淘万漉虽辛苦,吹尽黄沙始到金”的执着。

来源:李三清的紫竹林(ID:lisanqing2015)

英文版:

Genuine effort, maintain his composure

Article / Li Sanqing

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Big 4 last term prepare for war one"s deceased father when grinding, in library self-study room I knew jasmine, one laughs to have the girl of two pear eddy.

Be informed me to also grind in preparative take an examination ofing, jasmine is very enthusiastic, wanted my connection way, agree morning is read one case, carry English word on the back. My jump at.

The following day, jasmine is wearing silk of bud of a white to grow skirt, stepping on high-heeled shoes, grow hair amice, be late. I remind her to endorse rapidly, she takes out textbook however, let me help her pat a few pieces to illuminate first. Stand below the tree, sit on couch, all sorts of angle of …… of the front, sideways, back, all sorts of attitude, pat madly suddenly.

I think, she may be good find a companion not easily to take a picture to her, wait for new interest a few days passed to be able to set his mind at to review. Who knows, she everyday morning is read should take a picture, wear the dress of all sorts of styles, place sundry pose, seek all sorts of different point of view.

Original, she everyday morning is read, take a picture even if get stuck to be hit in friend circle. She chooses graph, long plan meticulously, and cudgel one"s brains for matchs above paragraphs art model character: Any books on “ world cannot bring you lucky, but they can let you become yourself stealthily. ”“ sooner or later, you can thank him ”…… that tries hard desperately now

I feel, this takes a picture, the time that chooses graph, long plan, still read book of a few pages, much back as how a few words. Systemic a person"s mind is enmeshed in study, it is an extraordinary investment, special enjoyment business, which think of busy move purposely still to take a picture, hair friend circle, waiting to harvest a chain of assist and comment?

As expected, be less than a month, jasmine becomes cold gradually with weather for easy cold, ended the day that morning reads.

The world tickler, make Yu Yi surely; The world important matter, make surely at fine. Hard, it is the fear of difficulty that overcomes oneself and laziness, forward fixed target little, one every day, stand by step by step.

You do thing of 34 months, there is the result oneself in 89 months. Genuine effort, do not need common people to all know.

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Not long ago, friend Lan Langang is taken an examination of on doctor.

Lan Lan"s graduate student graduates, work in the small town of native place, husband is in provincial capital city. She wants to end the day that two ground live apart with husband all the time. But, her major is not very good obtain employment, also do not have in the provincial capital city of talent many how old advantage, then she wants to take an examination of a doctor, the college goes working after.

When Lanlankaobo calls successfully to me, I very astonish. Because she is common the job is very busy, the business is particularly much, more crucial is she just gave birth to the child.

Original, lan Lan checks gain with respect to the plan two years ago. She made strict study plan, weekday assures to learn two hours everyday, assure to learn 4 hours at least everyday with holiday on the weekend, study plans to arrive accurately half hours every. When she is reviewed, close machine, stop a network, see time with watch only. During be pregnant, below the condition that allows in the body, study also is done not have discontinuous.

I ask how she doesn"t tell us to study the issue of rich. She says, checking gain is the decision that after she considers cautiously, makes. She does not need clear to tell the world, need only forward ground of this target day after day tries hard. Too much attention and greeting, bring a few needless psychology pressure easily instead to her.

Since chose distant place, consider harships travel at double speed only. Genuine effort, maintain his composure.

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A lot of moment, we like to shouting to want a change, want hard.

Want to learn gem gal, bit gnash one"s teeth to declare groom class, bought gem gal to take, hair friend circle plays card, ask everybody to supervise …… to hold to no less than coming however finally, end up with nothing definite;

Want to learn English, bought one pile book, finish of past of a few months still stays advanced 3 pages;

Want to take an examination of grind, go up about young associate goes studying by oneself in scheduled time room, busy however finally move is patted oneself, see novel, Liao Weixin, fill even become aware ……

If we can implement the spirit of shout in real operation of each days, perhaps can reduce a lot of compunction that stay because of incompetent, loaf.

The person that succeed succeeds, because they are not not blundering, Bacchic,be, year in year out, hardheaded, maintain one"s composure the ground tries hard.

Genuine effort, it is “ does not accumulate Kui pace, without down to a thousand li; Do not accumulate small stream, without with Cheng Jianghai ” accumulate; It is “ expensive preserving, why 3 more Mian the five watches of the night rises; The most profitless, be afraid that one day exposes to the sun 10 days only the self-discipline of cold ” ; It is “ 1000 although work hard,clean out 10 thousand seep through, blow Huang Sha only then the persistence to golden ” .

Origin: Li Sanqing"s black bamboo forest (ID: Lisanqing2015)

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