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别把生活想得太重,别把自己看得太轻

文/苏眉细细

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看过这样一个故事:一对小夫妻开了个小店卖馒头,就一张红纸写了店名贴在门口。一个电蒸锅,一天也蒸不出几屉馒头。邻居都替他们发愁,这日子可咋过呢?

谁知过了几个月,来买馒头的人越来越多,红纸上便添了几个字,开始卖花卷、糖三角和发糕。又过了几个月,又添了煮黏苞米、自制大酱、咸鸭蛋和咸菜……

作者写到,这家人“就像雨后抖动的一株草”。是的,这株草虽然柔弱,但却有一种令人感动的生命力。

一对普通的小夫妻,通过一天天踏实的努力,生活越来越好。然而,也有一些人, 感觉自己没有握住一手好牌,便早早放弃了。

堂弟小强初中毕业就辍学,四处打工,干过快递员、装修、汽车修理工等,但每次都干不长。他还总是抱怨,要么说那些工作太累,要么说自己挣得太少。

有一次,偶遇自己的初中同学,看到对方已是研究生毕业,进了一家大企业,堂弟顿感无比失落,又开始埋怨父母当初不劝自己继续读书,埋怨长辈没有本事……如今他已30多岁,打工的钱养活不了自己,还天天留恋网吧,彻底自暴自弃。

有句话说得好:太平年代,很少有人生绝境。社会的每个角落,看得到自暴自弃,也看得到向光而行的生命力。

而生活,永远不会亏待用心经营它的人。

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简单的道理,却不是每个人都懂得。

去朋友公司办事,遇到一位女孩子在她办公室哭得梨花带雨。原来,朋友公司前阵子招聘来两个新人,现在只能留一个,被淘汰的女孩子来问为什么。

为什么呢?朋友说,这两个女孩子刚来的时候,感觉资质都差不多,但是半年后却分出了高下。A女孩得心应手,B女孩得过且过。

朋友说了一件事儿:前阵子公司两位女员工同时休产假,工作量比较大,经常一个人干两个人的活,还要加班。A女孩虽然刚开始业务不熟练,但是努力做好每一件事,除了本职工作,还经常帮助其他同事跑腿、订餐 。B女孩做起事情很仔细,不出差错,但是效率特别低。

有一次,朋友听见B女孩和A女孩说:你别那么傻,干得再多,功劳也是别人的。

朋友接着说了第二件事儿:两个女孩合住在朋友闲置的一个两室一厅的房子里。有一天晚上,朋友回去拿点东西,发现A女孩的房间干净整洁,有一股淡淡的薰衣草香味,窗台上有几盆小小的多肉,还有一株绿萝;B女孩的房间,床上堆满了衣物和化妆品,感觉坐下去都很难。

朋友说,平时,B女孩比A女孩打扮得光鲜靓丽,没想到私下里却这么潦草。

一个对生活如此敷衍的人,不会有太大的出息。认真努力生活的人,才会充满希望且有无限的可能。

时光不会辜负一个平静努力的人。

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这些年,我们被一波又一波的成功案例所激励,眼光望向各行各业的名人大咖,羡慕他们的生活,渴望复制他们的成功经历。

但我们必须清楚地看到,这个世界上,不是努力就一定可以成功。想取得大的成就,基于成长、环境、机遇等诸多因素。

大多数的人,都是默默无闻。

但,这不是我们停下脚步的理由。因为生活没有我们想的那么轻松,也没有我们以为的那么沉重。

只要努力过好当下的每一天,不放过每一个细小的机会和努力,那么你吃过的苦,最终都会成为通向未来的路。

来源:苏眉细细说(ID:sumeixixi01)

英文版:

Do not miss the life too again, do not see oneself too gently

Article / Su Mei is fine

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Had seen a such stories: A pair of young husband and wife opened a small shop to sell a steamed bread, with respect to a piece red paper wrote inn name to be stuck in the doorway. A pot for steaming food of a report, a day also evaporate does not give steamed bread of a few drawer. Neighbour is anxious for them, can this time pass how?

Had told a few months, the person that will buy a steamed bread is increasing, a few words were added on red paper, begin to sell steamed twisted roll, candy trigonometry and steamed sponge cake. Spent a few months again, added again boil sticky bud rice, self-restrained big sauce, salty duck"s egg and pickles ……

The author is written, the careless ” of one individual plant that after this family “ resembles rain, shakes. Yes, although grass of this individual plant is effeminate, but the vitality that however a kind of your person is touched.

A pair of common young husband and wife, pass the effort that is free from anxiety every day, the life is better and better. However, also have a few people, him feeling does not have handholding skill good shop sign, abandoned early.

The cousin is small strong junior high school graduates with respect to discontinue one"s studying, work everywhere, the member that had done express delivery, decorate, vehicle repair labour, but work not to grow every time. He always still complains, or says those jobs are too tired, or says he is earned too little.

Once, him come across classmate of junior high school, seeing the other side already was graduate student graduation, took a big company, the cousin feels clinking suddenly lose, begin to blame parents not to persuade his to continue to read at the outset again, blame elder to do not have skill …… nowadays he already many years old 30, working money cannot feed him, still be reluctant to leave an Internet bar every day, thoroughly abandonment.

A word says well: Time of peace and tranquility, very few somebody gives birth to hopeless situation. Every corner of the society, look get abandonment, also see the vitality that get Xiang Guang and goes.

And the life, won"t have a deficit forever the person that needs the intention to manage it.

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Simple truth, not be everybody is known however.

Go to friend company handling affairs, encounter a girl to cry pear is beautifully to bring rain in her office. Original, invite applications for a job of the streak before friend company comes two new personality, can leave only now, the girl that is washed out will ask why.

Why? The friend says, when these two girls just came, feel aptitude is about the same, but divide however after half an year gave relative superiority or inferiority. A girl handy, b girl drift along.

The friend said a thing: Before two female staff of streak company rest at the same time maternity leave, workload is bigger, often a person works, work overtime even. Although A girl just began business inexperience, but had done each thing hard, besides own job, often still help other staff do legwork, order meal. B girl makes a business very careful, do not give error, but efficiency is particularly low.

Once, the friend hears B girl and A girl say: You are fastened so foolish, work again more, contribution also is others.

The friend said the 2nd thing then: Two girls chummage is in the friend"s unused two rooms in the house of one hall. One day in the evening, the friend goes back the thing that take a place, the room that discovers A girl is clean and neat, have a light lavender sweet smell, a few is there on windowsill the tub is little meaty, still have one plant green trailing plants; The room of B girl, the stack on the bed clothings and cosmetic, it is very difficult that the feeling sits.

The friend says, at ordinary times, b girl dresses up brightly than A girl beautiful beautiful, did not think of furtive in so illegible however.

A so perfunctory to the life person, won"t have too great promise. The person that lives hard seriously, just can be full of a hope and have infinite possibility.

Days won"t the person that disappoint tries hard calmly.

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These year, we by a drive of another successful case place, eye looks at the Ga of renown National People"s Congress to all trades and professions, envy their life, longing is duplicate their successful experience.

But we must see clearly, on this world, either can succeed certainly hard. Want to gain great success, be based on grow, a lot of element such as environment, good luck.

Most person, it is unknown to public.

But, this is not the ground that we stop offal pace. What think without us because of the life is so relaxed, what also think without us is so heavy.

Want to had tried hard each days of good instantly only, do not let off each petty opportunity and effort, so the pain that you had taken, final metropolis makes the way that leads to future.

Origin: Su Mei fine dilatancy (ID: Sumeixixi01)

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