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所谓热爱,就是坚持和投入

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所谓热爱,就是坚持和投入

文/毛毛虫小姐

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学妹给我打电话,说她又换工作了,这次是销售。电话里,她絮絮叨叨说着一年多来工作上的不如意,她说工作一点都不开心,找不到半点成就感。

末了,她问我:学姐,为什么想找一份自己热爱的工作这么难呢?

我问她上一份工作干了多久,她说不到三个月,做的还是行政助理的工作,工作内容枯燥乏味不说,还特别容易得罪人,实在不是自己的理想型。

我又问了她前几份工作辞职的原因,结果都是大同小异,不是因为工作乏味,就是同事不好相处,再者就是薪水太低,发展前景堪忧。

粗略估计,这姑娘毕业不到一年,工作却已经换了四五份,还跨了三个行业。

但即使如此频繁的跳槽,她也仍然没有找不到自己满意的工作。

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我问她,心目中理想型的工作是什么样子的。她说,姐,你知道苏明玉吗?就是《都挺好》电视剧里的女老大,我就喜欢她样子的工作,有挑战有成就感,有钱有权,生活自由,如果给我那样的工作,我会投入我全部的热情。

听她说完,我尴尬的笑了笑。

其实每一个人都向往这样的成功,但这姑娘却本末倒置了,并不是有了钱有了权有了成就以后才全力以赴的工作,而是全力以赴工作,投入了自己的全部以后,才有了地位名望钱财。

你要先投入,才会有收获,当你真正投入做一件事后,会明白两件事:首先你会明白,把一件事认认真真做好,所获得的收益远大于同时做很多事;

你会明白,有人风风火火做各种事仍未有回报,是因为他们从未投入过。从“做了”到“做”,正如“知道”到“懂得”的距离。

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之前单位有一个姑娘,工作特别拼命,只要说起她的名字,大家都会赞不绝口:这姑娘工作拼命的程度,连男人们都比不上。

后来有一次,在公司的期刊上我看到了对这姑娘的采访,来公司四年多,这期间做过车间的流水工,也在三班倒的岗位上一做就是两年,谁也不知道一个女孩子究竟是怎么扛过来的。

后来部门有了提拔晋升的名额,这位姑娘被列入了第一人选,并且全票通过。

她在采访里说:

毕业第一年,许多同学都穿上了好看的衣服,走在了宽敞明亮的写字楼里,对比光鲜亮丽的她们,我却穿着劳保服,每日穿梭在各种不同的机械设备里。

记得有人笑话我,说我一个姑娘,干一份这么不体面又危险的活,丢脸死了。

我当时有点生气,可后来当我沉浸在这份工作里,当我一点点沉淀打磨自己,当我发现自己对工作的热情,其实来源于对工作的投入,而不是周遭的环境时,我就对别人那点看我的眼光毫不在意了。

我越来越明确自己想要什么,热爱着什么,我越来越爱现在从事的这个行业,热爱这份工作,更热爱一直坚持努力的自己。

年轻时,我特别佩服那些不计较金钱、权位、报酬专心工作,认真学习的人,因为不计较钱多钱少肯认真工作的人,往往觉得只要是能从事这份工作,本身就是对他的最大报酬。

事实上,当一个人为了工作本身而不是工作后的工资来做事情的时候,他往往能够把工作做到最好,也一定会收到更多的报酬。

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读者给我留言,她说:二毛,我好羡慕你写了那么多文字,看了那么多书,你是怎样坚持做到的呢?为什么,我总是坚持不下去呢?

我说,那是因为你对读书写作这件事情不够感兴趣,不够热爱。

你会不会买一本书,其实你从来不看,但是你觉得好像拥有了其中的知识?你会不会制定了一个计划,其实你从来坚持不下来,只是享受制订计划那几天的快乐?

我们总是习惯了这样的开始,然后又寥寥草草的结束。对事如此,对待生活也是如此,当一个人对自己的生命开始用“潦草”来搪塞时,生命也会开始对他潦草。

如果跳舞,要像没有人看着那样尽兴;如果热恋,像从未受伤一样去爱;如果唱歌,像无人听着那样投入;如果活着,就把人间当天堂那般生活。

这个世界上有很多事,都是当你开始认真对待以后,才会发现其中包含的乐趣,你要带着关爱而不是期待地投入生活,当你对待事物越认真,对待工作越投入,你会发现能力与乐趣接踵而来。

因为所谓的热爱,其实就是不断的坚持和投入。

来源:鸡汤小镇(ID:qkmd520)

英文版:

Alleged have deep love for, hold to namely and throw

Young lady of caterpillar of article / wool

1

Learn younger sister to call to me, say she changes the job again, it is a sale this. In the phone, be favored with of her garrulous long-winded is saying more than one year to come to those who go up work as meaning, she says the job is not happy, cannot find sense of the least bit achievement.

At last, she asks me: Learn elder sister, it why want to seek a job that oneself have deep love for is so difficult to why want to seek a job that oneself have deep love for?

I ask her a job worked how long, she says to be less than 3 months, those who do still is the job of administrative assistant, working content is as dry as a chip and drab do not say, offend a person particularly easily still, the ideal that is not oneself really.

I asked before her a few jobs the reason of abdication again, the result is very much the same, because the job is tedious,not be, work in the same place namely bad to get along, it is pay moreover too low, expand foreground can care.

Crude guess, this girl graduation is less than a year, the job had changed 45 however, still crossed 3 trades.

But find new job often even so, she still also cannot find her satisfactory job.

2

I ask her, the ideal in memory the job is what appearance. She says, elder sister, do you know Su Mingyu? Namely " Dou Ting is good " the female old in teleplay, I like the job of her appearance, have a challenge successful feeling, have Qian Youquan, life freedom, if give me in that way job, I can throw my all enthusiasm.

Listen to her to say, my awkward laugh.

Each person is actually yearning such success, but this girl took the branch for the root however, not be after having money to authority had success just hammer and tongs the job, work hammer and tongs however, after those who threw oneself is all, just had money of positional fame and prestige.

You want to be thrown first, ability can have results, when you real investment becomes an after the event, can understand two issues: Above all you will be clear, had done a thing seriously, achieves earnings is ambitious at doing a lot of things at the same time;

You will be clear, fire of wind wind fire does someone all sorts of things still have no redound, because they never had been thrown,be. Did ” to do ” to “ from “ , “ of no less than knows ” knows the distance of ” to “ .

3

The unit has a girl before, the job is special desperately, want to speak of her name only, everybody can be profuse in praise: This girl works desperately degree, connect men be not a patch on.

Later once, on the periodical of the company I saw pair of this girls interview, come to a company more than 4 years, the running water that the workshop has done during this is versed in, also be being done on 3 post that fall is two years, does not know those who come over to a girl is how to be carried after all.

The branch had later promote rising quota of people, this girl was included the first person selected, and full is passed.

She is interviewing in say:

Graduate the first year, a lot of classmates put on good-looking dress, go in capacious and bright office building, comparative light is bright beautiful they, I am wearing labor insurance to take however, daily move back and forth in all sorts of different mechanical equipment.

Remember somebody jest I, say my girl, do so inglorious live dangerously again, died discreditably.

I am a bit angry at that time, can be enmeshed in this job when me later, when him burnish of my little precipitation, when me him discovery is opposite working enthusiasm, originate actually the investment to the job, is not week of environment that meet with when, I watch my eye not care a nut at that o"clock to others.

What do I myself want more and more clearly, what having deep love for, I love this trade that pursues now more and more, have deep love for this job, more have deep love for hold to hard all the time oneself.

Young when, I am special admire those not dispute money, authority, pay is absorption the job, the person of serious study, because not the person that dispute money much Qian Shaoken works seriously, often feel to if can be engaged in this,work only, itself is the largest to his pay.

In fact, when a person the salary that for working itself is not working hind does a business when, he often can accomplish the work best, regular also meeting gets more pay.

4

The reader leaves a message to me, she says: 2 wool, I am good envied you to write so much script, read so much book, are you how insist to accomplish? Why, do I always hold to no less than going to?

I say, because you compose this thing to be interested not quite to reading,that is, have deep love for not quite.

You can buy a book, actually you do not look, but do you feel to seemed to have among them knowledge? You can make a plan, actually you hold to no less than coming, what a few days that just enjoy lay a course is happy?

We always were used to such beginning, next the end of very few carelessly. Such to the thing, approaching the life also is such, begin to use “ to oneself life when a person illegible ” comes when prevaricate, life also can begin to be opposite he is illegible.

If dance, should resemble be being looked at without the person to one"s heart"s content in that way; If be passionately in love, go loving like never getting hurt; If sing, listening to be thrown in that way like nobody; If living, become the world heaven lives that kind.

There are a lot of things on this world, it is after beginning to be treated seriously when you, ability can discover the joy that includes among them, you should take care and not be to expect the ground throws the life, handle a thing when you more serious, treat the job to exceed investment, you can discover ability and fun are following one by one.

Because so called have deep love for, hold to ceaselessly namely actually and throw.

Origin: Chicken broth small town (ID: Qkmd520)

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